Wednesday, July 14, 2010

What Is Support?

This was the first thing we read at my DONA training, and I really love it! Truly sums up who a doula is and what we do. 

What Is Support?

Support is unconditional.

It is listening...

not judging, not telling your own story.

Support is not offering advice...

it is offering a handkerchief, a touch, a hug...caring. 

We are here to help women discover what they are feeling...

not to make the feelings go away.

We are here to help a women identify her options...

not to tell her which option to choose.

We are here to discuss steps with a woman...

not to take the steps for her. 

We are here to help a woman discover her own strength...

not to rescue her and leave her still vulnerable. 

We are here to help a woman discover she can help herself...

not to take responsibility for her. 

We are here to help a woman learn to choose...

not to make it unnecessary for her to make difficult choices. 

-Anonymous

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